More Than Just Summer Camp

Over the summer Josiah participated in a sibling program at Jacob's school on Tuesdays and Thursdays. I was a little concerned at first about the cost of driving him back and forth (Jacob's school is about an hour away), but the program itself was free, so it balanced out.

Siblings of the autistic children, ages 3 and up, were invited to participate in the summer-camp style activity. Along with games, art projects, etc. the siblings are also given the opportunity to be in the classroom with his/her brother or sister and be very hands on (as much as they want to be) with the "teaching" process. Josiah LOVES this part of the day. I've always known how lucky Jacob is to have Josiah as his brother, but this summer has really given new meaning to that acknowlegment. Teachers and therapists have mentioned to me on numerous occasions how wonderful Josiah is with Jacob. He has such a desire to teach Jacob new things and be a comfort and support to him during difficult situations.

I overheard him speaking to Jacob the other day in a soft sweet voice, reassuring Jacob that he "knows its difficult to wait sometimes, but just be patient and we will get you some more french fries in just a few minutes." (you would have to hear the intonation in his voice to really appreciate it) And Jacob has been initiating play (mainly tickling and wrestling) with Josiah ALOT lately and I think its because they have spent alot of time together away from home. It so great to see a relationship developing between the two of them...may not be a typical relationship, but its a relationship. Can't wait for the period of time that this happens with Micah and Jacob. It may be a while, as Micah just really gets on his nerves right now, but it will happen.

I'm just really greatful for the program this summer as it has done so much more than just giving Josiah something to do.